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Tuesday, January 29, 2013

A day in the life

It has been awhile since I updated everyone so I thought it would be nice to just post what a typical day is like here and what my area is like. Keep in mind, school term has not started yet so this will be different once I start working.

I wake up anywhere between 6:30 and 7:30 and either go for a nice run or begin to make breakfast. I go running early now because it is cooler and there are not tons of people. My runs consist of small village dirt roads and amazing views of trees and the tallest mountain in Uganda! If I did not boil water the night before and put it in a thermos, I boil up some water and add it to quick oats and into my French press. Yes I can find peanut butter to add in, yes I have cinnamon, yes there is fresh coffee right from Uganda, and yes sometimes I get milk but I am also learning to drink it black…woah! After a long and exaggerated meal, I wash my dishes (either in a bucket or in my all-purpose bathroom sink), I take a cold shower, and do what I need to do. If it is a clothes washing day, I soak the clothes with some powder detergent and then handwash everything and line dry it. It is actually pretty cool! During the day I either meet people in the village, walk to the closest trading center to buy produce and such, lay around and do nothing, or go to town.

So traveling is the most interesting part of my days. I live off of the major road that connects Kenya-Uganda-Sudan; that means it is really busy with huge trucks and probably the worst road I have ever seen in my life. There are monster pot holes I can lay in everywhere! But, there is also a lot of opportunity to meet people. I am about a 15 minute ride to my town, Tororo, and an hour ride to Mbale, which is a much larger town where I can find lattes!. Also, I am only an hour and a half from Jinja, the source of the Nile and “mini-America.” Ok so boda boda—motorcycles—are everywhere here and most peoples’ source of travel. However, they are dangerous so we are not allowed to use them. Instead we use taxi vans called Matatus. They comfortably seat 15, but since personal space does not exist, they usually have 20+. They are always an adventure and you never know what is going to happen while on the road.

At night I exercise a little, usually yoga (I might unintentionally be becoming a yoga instructor because I get tons of watchers who join in), and then begin the process of making dinner. Until I can get a gas tank for my stove, we use either a charcoal stove (sigiri) or a wood-burning stove. With the help of some kerosene, you light it up and play this dance of trying to keep it lit/hot while also preparing your meal. Depending on what I am making, it can take hours haha. Luckily, I brought a lot of spices and you can find almost any kind of food, so the meals are really tasty. I am saddest about there being no broccoli, but I intend on planting some! It is more dishes time, another shower, I boil up some drinking water to cool overnight, and then some reading or movie watching before going to bed. I am usually asleep by 9:30 or 10, crazy!

Every day is usually a little different and there is a ton of downtime that I spend reading, making my house a home, or watching the farm animals in my front yard do their thing (no I am not crazy, but it surprisingly replaces TV.) We have a really feisty female cow that does whatever she wants. The house is really coming along and I am quite excited for it. There is room for visitors! And my host dad is a carpenter so he built me a gorgeous full sized bed that needs extra bodies =). I am still loving life here; it is so relaxed and so green, no mad crazy rush. But I do get a little homesick each day. Mostly, I can’t wait to start working with the kiddies!

Mailing address!!!


Hey all! It has been awhile since I last posted, so I am putting up two. This one is just my new permanent address. Feel free to send tons of letters and packages =). Rules: no big brown envelopes, they get opened pretty often; tape it up nice and tight; number your letters so I get them in order; write something religious on packages…like a bible verse or God is Great, you get the idea. It takes about 3 weeks for me to get anything.
Peace Corps volunteers Tororo
Matthew Raymond
P.O. Box 463
Tororo, Uganda

If you want to be my best friend in the entire world, send me stuff! I don’t really NEED anything, but it feels really nice. Here are just some things that would never be turned away: protein bars, candy (you know how I love chocolate and M&Ms), maybe nice pens, good ground coffee or instant coffee, small hand sanitizers, and anything to remind me of you like pictures or memorabilia. And don’t you worry, I am gathering some awesome African gifts to send back to peeps and return the favor =) Love ya!

Thursday, January 3, 2013

First glance at cross-culture

Before I go into the main details, I just want to let everyone know I had a great Christmas in Uganda. All of us volunteers in Tororo took a short trip to the next largest town (which is really a small city by Ugandan standards), Mbale. We met up with our friends and had the best time. The city has everything, including a few proper coffee shops with espresso, huge supermarkets and craft stores, luxurious hotels (where we did not stay), delicious Indian food, and a bakery run by an American family. Not to mention there are tons of NGOs and travelers there so no one was staring and Mt. Elgon, the tallest mountain in Uganda, is in the background everywhere you walk. Oh and did I mention my hotel had hot running water!? That was the best part I think.  It was definitely sad being away for the first time, but because of amazing technology I got to talk to a lot of people and even skyped my family for present opening on Christmas morning. Great trip!

In the past couple weeks, I have had the chance to attend a few really cool events in Tororo. My family was invited to an introduction ceremony, where a girl is formerly introduced to her future husband. They had of course already met, but this was a traditional way of the families exchanging gifts and saying thank you to one another. What was different was that the women attending were dressed in very traditional African wear and performed this shrieking sound during the ceremony. However, besides that it really felt like a ceremony you would expect to find back home. Everyone was so excited, the sisters of the girl were taking care of her, people were eager to get in front to take photos, there was a long line for food, and towards the end it broke out into this large singing and dancing arty. Needless to say I had a fantastic time. Next, I brought in the New Year Ugandan style.  My family took me to this Trade Show, sort of like a fair upstate back home, where they were shooting off fireworks. There was a stage with performers and the main artists were a dwarf and a Rastafarian. Other than some more traditional songs and dances (which I will learn) it felt exactly like New Years back home. Tons of excitement, teenagers sneaking alcohol, parents sitting in the back, and the countdown! The only thing I didn’t like was that I was out later than ever, after 1 am…I am an old man now and sleep by 10 haha. Ok last, for New Year ’s Day we went to a nice hotel for lunch and swimming. At the pool I saw everything you see at home, kids splashing each other, dads teaching their kids how to swim, some kids standing arms crossed shivering and not swimming, and teenagers outside the pool doing soccer. Basically, I am saying that it seems so far that people are largely the same everywhere you go! Oh and Happy New Year everyone!
*Keep in mind the following is just from the Uganda I have experienced and the US I have experienced
Some differences:
-Sense of time is very different and urgency isn’t really here
-Cleanliness is relative and subjective
-Food is a very big deal here
-Dress and music
-Greeting one another is very important
-Restrictions and guidelines for hotels and restaurants are non-existent
-All your necessities are cheap
-Those are roads?
-Many eat with their hands
-Different concepts of personal space and no such thing as reaching carrying capacity.
-Vague future planning/foresight
-Life is exercise
-pets are practical, not family
-Gender roles are really strict
-Religion is very important and is a public thing to discuss
-Families are huge; extensive family is always welcome to come over
-Water is sacred and holy
-Electricity is special and rare
-Neighbors always stop in and chat for A WHILE
-Ownership is vague and borrowing often means you don’t get it back for weeks and weeks
-Food is sometimes used as a present
-Polygamy is not rare at all
-No trash or waste management (pit latrines and trash burning)
-They eat at very different hours (dinner is at 10 at night)
Similarities:
-Love of laughter and humor
-Strong immediate family ties
-Dressing smart for work
-Kids love to play games and sports
-Food brings people together
-Big ceremonies are very much like big parties
-School and intelligence is highly valued
-Stealing is a big no-no
-Noticeable gap between rich and power and what luxuries, rights, knowledge, and access they have (I think the gap is a bit larger here)
-Awareness of news and African events
-A ton of national pride
-Love of music and dance
-You can find both conservative/liberal and traditional/modern people
-It is more liberal and open-minded in the cities than in the villages
-A lot of cars (but there are more motorcycles here)
-Loving to dress up and look pretty
-Appreciation and protection of environment (might actually be more here)
-Privacy in the bathroom and bedroom (though only those places)
-Some types of food are the same: rice, beans, onions, tomatoes, salt, corn, bananas, meat..
-Sports are big and people go crazy at the games
-Women work very hard

-Same chores, just done differently (a lot of bending down and reusing water)

-Kids do a lot of the work in house (this is for the not spoiled kids at home)

- Teachers are professionals, but not paid well

-Some kids unfortunately go to school hungry

-Personal gardens abound
-Pictures and posters on the walls in the house
-A lot of furniture, but they also sit on the ground to eat
-Uganda capitalizes on tourism rather similarly
-People love to use the phone/internet to communicate all the time
-Yes, there are proper toilets some places with plumbing
-And of course, the teenage boys sag their pants…jeans, and the girls have dyed weave!